LANDRY KAVINYA

The most difficult time for any man is probably between age 24 and 29 years,the pressure to be something and someone is so immense. When you look around you,everyon e seems to be doing something for themselves,people seem to be living a life you only dream of. you have applied for jobs and the results have been more disapointing than Besigyes shot at presidency. Sadly this is the age when most guys lose it,the age if not careful,one is consumed by alcohol and drugs………because the disappointments become too much and you find alternative ways to face reality. Worse is when a few people you studied with have beeen lucky enough to land jobs,soon your circle of friends grows thinner mostly they dont even cut you out but you be real with yourself and cut yourself out.I mean,what will you do when in a whatsapp group of friends discussing last week’s trip to zanzibar and planning another road trip to kigali while you’re not sure of what your next meal would be? most t...

  1. Return to what hasn’t worked. Whether a job, or a broken relationship that was ended for a good reason, we should never go back to the same thing, expecting different results, without something being different . 2. Do anything that requires them to be someone they are not. In everything we do, we have to ask ourselves, “Why am I doing this? Am I suited for it? Does it fit me? Is it sustainable?” If the answer is no to any of these questions, you better have a very good reason to proceed. 3. Try to change another person. When you realize that you cannot force someone into doing something, you give him or her freedom and allow them to experience the consequences. In doing so, you find your own freedom as well. 4. Believe they can please everyone. Once you get that it truly is impossible to please everyone, you begin to live purposefully, trying to please the right people. 5. Choose short-term comfort over long-term ben...